Positve Character Or Negative Character

Today I would like to share one story about character...enjoy..

James Glover, a newly graduated teacher, stood at the front of his classroom preparing for another battle.
He glanced at the students as they filed into class – Worn out sneakers, shirts untucked, shoulders slumped. What could his English class give these kids that would help them with the problems they faced in the real world?
He had tried reaching out to them and he knew that he'd failed, but today he was going to try a different approach.
"OK everyone, grab a seat and listen up!
"Today we're going to talk about the nature of character. So... Damon, what does character mean to you?"
The heavyset boy in the second row shifted in his seat uncomfortably before replying, "Umm, character is the people in a story?"
"You're right Damon, characters are the people in a story, but the nature of character goes much deeper than that. Let me show you something."
James lifted two plastic trays up on to his desk so that everyone in the class could see them. In each tray sat a large sponge. He then produced two glass jugs. The first contained clear water and the second contained dark brown drain water.
The young teacher poured the clear water into the first tray and the brown water into the second tray.
"OK, who can tell me what's happening here?"
"The sponges are soaking up the water?" replied the usually quiet Sharon.
"That's right Sharon, the sponges are soaking up the water that surrounds them.
"And that's exactly how we develop our sense of character. We absorb the ideas of the people around us just like these sponges soak up the water.
"If we surround ourselves with supportive, optimistic people we gradually develop a positive character," said the young teacher indicating the tray containing the clean water.
He then motioned towards the second tray.
"On the other hand, if we continually associate with pessimistic and cynical people, we gradually develop a negative character."
James paused and noticed that the background chatter that usually filled the class was absent.
"Now what happens when I take the sponges out of the water?" he asked as he lifted up the sponges, one in each hand.
The class looked puzzled.
"How do they look?" prompted James.
"They look the same to me" said Damon and the class responded with a ripple of laughter.
"You're right Damon, they do look the same on the outside, but there's one important difference.
"Watch what happens when I squeeze the sponges." James squeezed the first sponge and clear water flowed back into the tray. He then squeezed the second sponge and released a steady stream of dark liquid.
"You see, even when I remove the sponges from their trays, they still carry their water with them. Its only when I squeeze the sponges that we can really see what's inside them.
"The same thing happens with us," continued James, "When we leave our familiar environment, we still carry our character inside us and when life puts us under pressure, our true character emerges from within."
The class was quiet as they reflected on James story.
For Damon Washington, this was a timely message. Since moving schools he'd been spending time with a group of neighborhood kids who had a very negative view of the world.
In a moment of insight that belied his years, Damon realized that his new 'friends' were a lot like the dark brown water in Mr. Glover's second tray. Perhaps his Mom was right after all – perhaps he did need to find some new friends...
At the end of the period, as the students filed out of the classroom, James Glover received the most rewarding compliment of his teaching career when Damon paused at the door and said, "That thing with the sponges was pretty cool Mr G."
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Today I'd like to encourage you to take Mr Glover's lesson on board.
Make the decision to spend your time with motivated, optimistic people. By doing this you will gradually soak up the thoughts and ideas necessary to develop a positive character.
And when the time comes and life puts you under pressure, you'll be able to draw upon this reservoir and your true character will emerge from within.

Take a moment to reminisce about yourself,are you the one with positve character or negative character. Don't rush,it's not too late...Yet..

Yang Paling Cantik...

Halo kawan-kawan...sory ah lama x update blog ne, ada busy sket. Actually ada sikit mo share ne,mcm topik dia yg paling cantik.
Actually,ne aq pinjam dari twofivesix[256] punya blog, cuma tambah sikit ulasan la,hehe..sorry 256. Cerita dia gni,dalam sekolah ni,ada seorang murid tanya ngan cikgunya,macam mana nak pilih seseorang yang terbaik sebagai orang yang kita sayang dan macam mana supaya kasih sayang itu berkekalan. Lalu,cikgunya ni menyuruh murid tersebut supaya pergi ke padang dan cabut satu rumput yang murid tu rasa paling cantik tanpa menoleh belakang lagi walau sekali. Murid tersebut pun keluar tuk mencari rumput yang paling cantik. Bila murid tersebut sampai ke kelas,tiada sehelai pun rumput di tangannya. Cikgunya bertanya kenapa tiada rumput yang dibawa nya balik. Murid tersebut menjawab,dia tidak dapat mencari rumput yang paling cantik walau pun telah sampai ke hujung padang,namun dia pasti ada di antara rumput yang paling cantik berada di belakangnya semasa prose pencarian tersebut,namun murid itu tidak berpaling ke belakang kerana cikgunya telah memberitahu supaya jangan menoleh ke belakang walau sekali, dan sebab itu juga dia tidak dpat memlih walau sehelai pun rumput yang cantik..lalu cikgunya menjawab itu la jawapan nya,sambungnya lagi,jikalau sudah mendapat atau berjumpa dengan orang yang kita sayang,jangan lah kita menoleh lagi ke belakang kerana yang berlaku tetap berlaku dan takkan berulang lagi...maka,orang yang disayangi tulah orang yang paling cantik dan paling baik...walaupun ada banyak lagi yang cantik dan baik seperti rumput...

Apakah moral yang kita dapat dari perbualan murid dan cikgu nya itu?? Bagi saya sendiri, cakap cikgunya tu memang betul. Kita terutama orang yang tengah bercinta ini, cenderung melakukan perkara sebegini..apa dia??sudah ada couple dikata single bila perempuan cantik yang bertanya. Kesudahaannya, scandal2 berlaku...atau lagi teruk, couple terus..maka apa jadi ngan teman sedia ada??mula gaduh,mula la mencari salahnya...semua serba tak kena...last2 break...itu jadinya kalau menoleh ke belakang setelah mendapat orang di sayangi. Mengapa ini semua selalu terjadi..??Ini la selalu dipanggil kononnya human nature...tidak pernah berpuas tentang apa yang ada...selalu sahaja inginkan yang lebih,sebab itu la peribahsa diberi betis hendak paha dicipta,hehe..tapi ini la yang benar2 berlaku sekarang,zaman moden la katakan..kadang2 ada orang buat perasaan ini macam mainan,senang dimain2kan. Jikalau kita amalkan apa yang dikatakan oleh cikgu tersebut,saya rasa..kita akan jadi antara manusia yang bahagia di dunia di samping orang yang kita sayang. Saya tahu,ini bukannya mudah,kerana,..mgkin anda yang tidak menoleh ke belakang,sebaliknya pasangan anda. For sure the relationship can turned upside down kan..??Dalam hubungan cintan-cintun ne,kadang2 kamu jangan la terlalu mengharap sangat,terutama kepada yang baru sahaja berjinak2 dengan dunia percintaan ini,tentunya kepada muda-mudi zaman sekarang,tidak kira di alam persekolahan atau apa..perjalanan kamu semua masih jauh..so simpan kasih sayang kamu untuk kamu benar2 pasti orangnya,iaitu psangan yang tidak akan menoleh ke belakang setelah memiliki kamu. Perjalanan untuk mencari orang sebegitu memang susah kerana zaman sekarang bukan boleh trust sangat,tapi orang sebegini tidak juga boleh disalahkan 100%,kerana puncanya dari anda sendiri,tia taw la..hurm.mungkin juga orang tu,ada di depan mata cuma kamu sndiri yang tidak menyedarinya. Apapun,kamu yang membaca blog ini,cuba la jangan menoleh setelah mendapat orang yang anda sayangi..kalau pasangan anda tu kuat menoleh juga,anda menoleh la sikit2..Hahahaha...k la..that' s all for today...nak tido luk kenen ne..mo cas..haha..Adios
-Peace Out-
Reo-Sama

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Hi guys,long time no see..it's been a while since my last blog. Well, today i wanna share one story with you guys. I can say this is one love story....maybe..
Well, in a far-far away city, there is one girl called Sara. She has one boyfriend called Jimmy, they have been together for almost 3 years(approximately). She love her boyfriend so damm much i think,lol..and she wants to be with her boyfriend forever(childish)..but things doesn't always go as you plan rite??she got this secretary job and begin her work normally everyday..until one of the guy in her workplace began to flirt her...they started to text~ing/calling each other...everyday maybe...sara have no intention to betray or so called curang at all..for your information,sara is so sensitive especially things regarding her boyfriend...she can cry instantly if her boyfriend doesn't call her,or gone to somewhere else without telling her...or worse,some one told her that Jimmy is with another girl...she will be down like hell..hahha...back to the story...she and this guy named Glenn in her workplace couple under the name scandal,but only for a short while...lol....and one day,Sara and her boyfriend Jimmy broke up...she was very disappointed and all she has now is her best friend to comfort her.
Then,one day,a girl called anne work with them. Her ex so called scandal become close to anne. Sara thought she doesn't have any feelings toward Glenn,but when she saw Glenn and Anne together,this make her sad. For making things worse,you can say sara and anne is friend and sara have to face them everyday at their workplace...Sara go on with her life but deep inside her,she was bleeding..~The End~lol~~~

Before that,i wanna apologize to all,i'm not good in making any stories..lol...plus..im running out time...i'm so damm sleepy right now..but afraid everything will gone by this morning..lol..well...from the stories above, what can you conclude???

P/S:gonna make it better....so damm sleepy now..

Blog Postponed

Hi, i haven't update my blog for a while. Kinda busy with this sabah fest thingy. Well, if you guys don't have any idea what is sabah fest is. I'll tell you guys when i'm done or more precisely when all the events done and finish. Well, i'm waiting to see you guys again and i got many things to share with you

Till we meet again m8.
~Peace Out~

Love

Hey, what can we say about love?? It's very hard to describe right..??How many of us have fall in love??If you say you never fall in love, then take a deep breath and say this to yourself, "I'm lying"....
I don't believe human being in earth has never fell to love. True right..??I believe each and everyone of you have fall in love at least once in your life.
I, myself have love some one i think more than two times. The first one for me is sucks...really2 sucks...seriously,i love to play with someone heart last times. All i know is enjoying the feeling. I think i enjoyed it too much and become someone selfish.
What i mean is,i don't care other people, which means i just satisfy myself, if i don't really satisfy with someone i'll look for some one else. That is consider evil, playing with someone hearts. It's amazing to know what love capable to do. It can cost someone life's and with love,you never look on his/her background, all you know is giving all the best to your lover..well...it's very touching depends on which perspective you look. well,that all for now..rushing ne,,that's why type cepat2..ghehe..ciao//

Sorry.

First thing first, i think i don't to mention your name here. But, i hope you know that this is for you.Before i go further, i would like to say sorry to you,and i really hope that you can read this even i know that you won't. I knew i hurted you that day, i still remember what happened. You asked me,which one you choose, me or her and i'm with my blindness and stupidity said,her. I never realize that i have make a big mistake that will haunted me for the rest of my life. Yes, it's true. Your tears that night,i still remember it till now. I know,i've no right to say these thing to you as it's not me the one who've been burden.
Back to that time, i knew i lied to you and this hurted you the most. I never thought you could love me that strong that time, i'm sorry if i use the wrong word. I don't know what else to say,i knew you won't forgive me that easily. I embarassed you infront of your friend. No one could forgive someone like that easily, i understand that. But, all i can say that time, i'm just a teenager with young+dumb mind in my head. All i was thinking is enjoying my life as a teenagers, and didn't care a bit of your feelings towards me. That regret me the most. It's like one big memory in my head that i can't get rid off. I often dreamed of what happened that night.
Don't worry,if it is happen for us to meet again next time. I will act as i never know you before. I will always pray for you F a.k.a E. I never stop pray for your happiness. Maybe i don't deserve to pray for you, but this is the only thing that i can do for you after i screw you up. All i can say,i hope that i can kneel down before you to ask for forgiveness. I truly regret what i've done to you. Maybe you'll say this is one of my drama. But, believe me,people change. I was a fool that time. Now,i've grown up and i realize the things i've done before was all wrong and all stupid especially when i let you go.I don't care if you want to curse me,but i know that you won't cuz you will be rather to watch me experienced the same thing that you've been through. Maybe i'm wrong. But hey, thanks for realizing me that i'm such a jerk.

The day is gone, and all it's sweets are gone
God Bless You.

Lambatnya Masa Berlalu...

Lama dah x update blog ne, masuk2 jak ada dah di chatbox ne org komen2...tah komen2..ada lagi guna nama aq p maki2..tah lah..wutever.janji kamu happy..Hurm..asal jan jak nama aq yg buruk lah. Memang sudah buruk,but just to let the visitor here know bukan sy yg p maki2 di sana tu, tau lar..senang jak mo tulis nama sepa2 jak di sana tu. betul kan..?hurm, lama tia update blog ne pasal sibuk ngan praktikal..huhuhu..tup2 jak..dah enam bulan dah praktikal..law fkir balik mmg cepat masa berlalu, but bila fkir balik yg dh dkat masa tuk habis praktikal ne..makin lmbat pula masa berlalu. Arghh,sudah la sibuk tul skarang di ofis..knowledge yg spatutnya kita amik time praktikal ne mcm meletup pula masuk dalam otak ne..overload dah sy rasa. Huhu,..sandi eh..
Anyway, blog ne cuma tuk testing jak ne..sambil2 mo check it out kenen apa yg ada dalam dunia blogging ne. Hehehe..nnt bila dah pro skit kenen..pandai la p lagi advance.

-Peace Out-